Parents who want to ensure that their children successfully develop key social skills, a healthy identity, and a strong work ethic need to make the right choices every step of the way. Clinical psychologist Dr. Michael Osit draws on his professional - as well as personal - experiences working with children and teens who have been challenged by unprecedented access to information, possessions, and temptation. Using case studies and examples, this audiobook provides reasonable, down-to-earth strategies listeners can use to address the unique issues faced by children surrounded by infinite choices Good examples, advice and tips to navigate today's excess of access to technology, information and instant gratification in order to help children meet their potential while having limits and active parents involved.
By: Dr. Michael Osit. Narrated by: Dan John Miller.
Length: 11 hrs. Publisher's Summary A teenage boy goes shopping on the Internet, sees something he likes, immediately reaches his mother via cell phone, and in a few short keystrokes, types in her credit card number and gets a shiny new lacrosse stick. What I did agree with was his assessment that too much of our interaction with our kids is guilt-driven - that we never seem to think that we're doing enough for them, and that we are always trying to make up for some of our deficiencies.
We also tend to have very child-focused families, which isn't healthy either. Finally, near the end of the book, he used an example of a girl of limited financial means, living in a more affluent community.
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He bemoans the difficulty she has without her own computer. She uses the library and doesn't even have an email address!
Which is ridiculous and shows how little this doctor even knows, since free email accounts through the web are hardly difficult to come by She has a cell phone, but - oh the horror! He really seems to condemn this girl to some sort of unsatisfying life all because of her lack of "appropriate" access to technology.
Which, in addition to being short-sighted and ridiculous, pretty much lets society off the hook for any responsibility for this girl's success.
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It also reinforces the idea that the norms of today are the only possible norms to live by and that there isn't value in questioning them and choosing a different path. Basically, I think the best thing about this book was the title. Apr 06, Dianne rated it really liked it Shelves: education-parenting , non-fiction. The internet has brought new challenges to the task of parenting.
Generation Text gives insight into how to guide children to profit from the incredible store of information at their fingertips whilst not harming or being harmed by information and videos etc. The author has had decades of experience counselling teens and their parents. I agree with everything he has to tell us. I liked this quote from the text: "Instead of having to work to get things, for Generation Text The internet has brought new challenges to the task of parenting.
I liked this quote from the text: "Instead of having to work to get things, for Generation Text they are readily available upon request. When you provide your child with unlimited Internet access, their own computers and cell phones, and your credit card information, why would you assume they would act any other way? By introducing a child to an aggressive behaviour set of violent video games, fantasy play for hours on end, we allow him to become desensitized to violence, which in turn becomes incorporated into his schema.
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This process is known as "normalization. Regarding typical teenage resistance to family expectations I like Dr. Osit's advice: Try not to get caught up in daily arguments. Step back and try to recall your teenager's positive attributes. Try to find humour in your teen and in the situation. Been there, done that, even think I would enjoy being the parent of a 'generation text' teen because these kids know so much more than any generation from the past.
The very best advice I found in this book was to teach your child that it is okay to be different, to not take part in an activity which goes against their standard of right and wrong or is simply not age appropriate. The battle against peer pressure is nothing new, it has just taken a different turn. Jul 26, Kevin rated it liked it Shelves: psychology. An interesting look into the effects of how technology is influencing a generation that is growing up with it. Even has some applicable lessons for those of us that weren't raised on it but are now taking it all for granted.
Definitely a valuable book to read for any parent currently raising a child of any age. Well written for a parenting book. Not too preachy. Not too cliche. Either the author is current, in-touch, and relevent to today's children, or I've become one of the out-of-touch dorky d An interesting look into the effects of how technology is influencing a generation that is growing up with it. Either the author is current, in-touch, and relevent to today's children, or I've become one of the out-of-touch dorky dads.
Which I'm not ruling out at this point as I'm growing quite fond of khaki shorts and black business socks. Sep 19, Richard Stephenson rated it liked it. I liked it. Covers a broad range of topics on a very useful subject Oh and "not having the latest and greatest will greatly detriment your child's educational potential" Stinky fish to swallow there, sir. Still - good stuff that'll I liked it. Still - good stuff that'll help you understand and love your "Gen Text" kids just a wee bit more. Sep 27, Lori rated it liked it Shelves: audio , non-fiction , parenting.
Nothing earth shattering in here, but it was short, easy to listen to and gave some good suggestions. The science nerd in me liked his discussion of why certain things were happening. Like how the immediate availability of everything information, communication, etc. And I appreciated his perspective as a therapist and his specific tricks to help combat the entitled generation that seems to be forming.
Dec 16, edh rated it it was ok. It's pretty hideously awful and inconsistent so far. I may not finish. Nope, didn't finish it. Part of the problem was his pop culture references Do you get what I mean? Jul 30, Lori rated it liked it Shelves: audiobooks.
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A great book for parents. It is cautionary in nature, but also very realistic. Dec 17, Andrea rated it liked it. Very much enjoyed.
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Good tools on how to compromise with your kids without sacrificing important family values. Not that much information was new to me, however, a great review and good reinforcement for myself. Would definitely recommend to other parents. May 11, Holly rated it really liked it. Sound parenting principles here, but nothing terribly new. Some of it is obvious, but then, good principles generally are.
The pop culture and technology references are dated, but aren't really the point. Jun 14, Jessi Corriston rated it it was amazing.